The Way of Forgiveness

When employing the process of forgiveness, I have discovered three steps that lead me out of my anger and hurt. The first is tolerance, the second is acceptance, and the third is to embrace. Anyone involved in a situation of betrayal might find all three of these steps impossible, but given time and effort, we can slowly bring ourselves to move in the right direction. These steps provide gentle course corrections on our journey home. They bring us from the impossible to the possible. They provide for us the ability to love our enemies and find peace with everyone.

Another process that produces good results for many people is the daily practice of forgiveness. If someone butts in front of us in line, we practice forgiveness. If we inadvertently butt in front of someone else and it comes to our attention, we ask for forgiveness. A simple, “I’m sorry,” is usually sufficient. By daily practicing forgiveness in small ways, we find it easier to forgive in ways that we feel are major hurts in our lives. Forgiveness is a cornerstone in the spiritual journey. It keeps us on the path and helps us to welcome all who would choose to walk beside us.